How should we handle our suffering in this life?
Handling suffering in this life requires a fundamental shift in perspective, moving from viewing trials as obstacles to seeing them as a divine process intended to bring the believer to a "completed end". The proper way to navigate hardship involves a combination of mental discipline, spiritual rest, and communal support, all centered on the example of Jesus Christ.
The first step in handling suffering is to stop viewing trials as "strange" or alien experiences. The sources describe suffering as a "fiery trial" or a "smelting" process designed to test the believer. Rather than complaining—which the speaker suggests is a reaction of the "sin nature"—believers are encouraged to rejoice and find a mental attitude of being "pleasantly satisfied". This is possible because suffering is viewed as a "gracious thing" produced by the character of God to lead a person from their current state to an intended end of christlikeness.
Central to this response is the command to "fix your eyes" on Jesus. He serves as the ultimate example of one who was "perfected through sufferings" to become a "sufficient High Priest". By considering how He endured the "contradiction of sinners" and the shame of the cross, believers can prevent themselves from becoming "mentally tired out" or "enfeebled" in their own minds. This perspective allows one to look past current pain toward the same "joy" and future glory that Christ focused on during His earthly ministry.
Practically, handling suffering involves entering into "faith-rest" by ceasing from one's own works. This does not mean an absence of activity, but rather a cessation of the attempt to resolve trials through self-effort or fleshly desire. Instead of "freaking out," the believer relies on God’s provisions and works, which the speaker notes makes the experience "pretty easy" because the burden is placed on the sufficiency of Christ.
Finally, no one is meant to suffer alone. While Jesus endured His trials in isolation, believers have the provision of a sympathetic High Priest who understands human weakness and provides confidence when approaching the "throne of grace". Furthermore, the church provides mutual encouragement and specific spiritual gifts designed to support those in the midst of struggle. By sharing burdens rather than holding them in, believers accept God's gracious provisions for the time of their testing.
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“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.” — 2 Timothy 3:16-17